Jake reminded me of many boys in my classroom. He was interested in the things that he could relate to and uninterested in school and literacy practices. I think this is true of boys from all different classes, but i can see where it really affects boys from working-class families. Boys, in general, seem to be less interested in reading and writing. How can we, as teachers, make literacy more appealing to boys? Like Mrs. Hicks stated at the beginning of the chapter, most teachers are women, who seem to struggle relating with boys. She definitely had more of a connection with Laurie, and i know that in the past, i've had many connections with the girls in my classes, but fewer with the boys. I think that it is actually one of the greatest challenges of teaching.....How do women teachers make a true connection with boys in their classrooms? It's necessary in order for the boys to learn to their full potential.
Jake did well in kindergarten. He was able to move around the classroom and make choices as to what he wanted to participate in. I noticed that he rarely chose the writing corner, unlike Laurie. Once moving on into first grade, Jake began to struggle with school practices. He had to learn what the teacher told him to learn, whether it interested him or not. It was almost as if the teacher implied that what he wanted to learn, was not important. Once again, the first grade teacher did not individualize reading instruction. Did the administrators at this school not notice that children were falling behind in this first grade classroom?? Why wasn't anything done about it? Obviously, the reading series was not working for all of the children. I'm just glad that the kids had a great 2nd grade teacher to move onto.
I really felt that Mrs. Williams did as much as she could to get the kids interested in learning. I was baffled that Jake didn't like the science experiment. Well, he liked the experiment but not the work to go along with it.
Soap Box: (Sorry) This happens to me all of the time. I come up with a great, engaging lesson, yet i hear small complaints when it comes down to the nitty-gritty work that goes along with it. I know that some kids, like Jake, think that some writing work is pointless and useless, but how else are they going to learn to express their feelings in writing, if they don't get the chance to try? Sometimes i feel that teachers can only do so much, then it's up to the kids to take over. I don't know, i guess i just sympathized with Mrs. Williams, a little more than Jake at that point. Like Mrs. Hicks suggests on page 134, how can teachers make this constant connecting happen in a real-life , complex situation? There are about 20 kids in a typical classroom. There is NO possible way a teacher could hit on everyone's interests all of the time. A good teacher tries to incorporate as many interests as possible into her lessons, as many times as possible a day. I've always hoped that if i atleast hit on everyone's interests atleast once a day, i was doing good. I guess i'm just frustrated. Any suggestions?
I think the best idea of the book is the writers workshop notebook. I'm going to incorporate it this coming year into my classroom. I never realized how important of a tool it could be for some kids, especially working-class children. Atleast in that one spot, they get to express their true identities and feelings, and dreams. Overall, this chapter opened my eyes to some things i hadn't thought about before. I never realized the impact of class until learning about Jake and Laurie, even though i think many kids go through issues of some kind, no matter the class. My mind is racing with thoughts of how i can improve my teaching, and become more sensitive to gender, race, and class,.....which is hopefully the point of this course.
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Andrea,
I've experienced the same thing with boys and girls. I've felt that I've had connections with the girls in my classrooms but not the boys. It can be frustrating because I have felt if I could have that connection I could get through to the boys and help them progress in school. I felt that I did make a connection with one of my boys this year. I had two students I used in a research project. I mentioned the girl in an earlier post. I read to the boy an extra ten minutes a day in a quiet place. We read books he was interested in. I chose him because he was struggling academically and behaviorally. I saw many improvements while doing this research. I made the comment to someone before I read this book that I felt like he and I connected because of the time we spent together. I know we can't do this with every boy in our classroom but wouldn't it be wonderful if we could? I would like to know other ways to connect, too.
Posted by Dawn Thomas | June 16, 2007 11:21 PM
Posted on June 16, 2007 23:21
Hi Andrea!
I think that you are right on target when you point out that classrooms (especially in elementary school) are organized and run mainly by females which puts our male students at a disadvantage, not to mention all the male students I taught who didn't have a male role model at home!! I guess the lack of male role models in the public elementary system has always been a concern! I, like you, struggle to know how to "compensate" or relate! I have related more easily to some boys than to others, just as I relate more easily to some girls but I do notice that the older (4th and 5th) grade boys seem to need those absent role models! Maybe this is where we could look to the community for mentors and tutors to help fill that need. This year I did ask our guidance counselor (who was male, fortunately) for help with improving the dialogue with the boys in my class (they were outnumbered 2 to 1). He agreed that the boys needed more mentoring so he helped them create their own basketball team (an opportunity to pursue a common interest and an opportunity to network with the male PE teacher outside of class). He also helped me find some male volunteers in the community who were willing to just come talk, read, play chess. I really appreciated his help in addressing the issue of being a "minority" (interesting, isn't it......we don't often think of boys as being a minority in the school system).
Betsy Baldwin
Betsy Baldwin
Posted by Betsy Baldwin | June 18, 2007 6:20 PM
Posted on June 18, 2007 18:20
Andrea,
I agree that some teachers may have more difficulty realating to boys, but others may find it easy. I have always had a tendency to connect with boys. I grew up with a brother and many boy cousins so that may have a lot to do with it. Working class boys have a tendency to be less interested in academics. I do think this comes from home, but it also comes from society. We as educators need to develop strategies and take workshops to find out how we can reach these boys. They deserve the right to take their learning as far as other children do. If the encouragement is not coming from home, we can encourage at school.
Beth Rigsbee
Posted by Beth Rigsbee | June 19, 2007 11:08 AM
Posted on June 19, 2007 11:08
Andrea,
I hear your frustration. I don't think you'll ever design one lesson that will excite all children and meet all of their complex needs! I think the important thing, as you mention, is to be really versatile in your instruction so that you are meeting different needs at different times, along the lines of race, class, gender, and language. The more variety and differentiation you have, the less you have to worry about that one grand lesson taking care of it all!
Posted by Alecia | June 19, 2007 10:19 PM
Posted on June 19, 2007 22:19