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Fictions of Girlhood - Dawn Thomas

It was interesting reading about Laurie from kindergarten through second grade. I enjoyed reading about her relationship with Nicholas. Being a kindergarten teacher, this is definitely easy to picture. Since Laurie assumed a motherly role at home, I guess it was easy and natural for her to carry this over to school. She felt comfortable in this role. She also had another role that she could assume with Nicholas and that was being an adolescent with him. This seemed like an important relationship for her. They seemed very close since they ignored another child in a center. There was a part in the book that said, "She was academically and socially more mature than he was, and this gave her an edge of authority." The motherly identity was in her and I believe this made her feel good about herself. I'm sure that she liked the authority and she knew that she could have that with Nicholas. I found it interesting how it limited her academic practices with the goop episode. Sometimes this happens with kindergartners. You want them to get something out of it academically but instead it may be more domesticated. But I believe that is alright sometimes because at the kindergarten age children are learning social skills and how to get along. They are also learning through play. I read a poem about children and play and it said that when you see your child playing in the homeliving center, for example, your child may be learning how to be a mom or dad someday.
Laurie seemed to have a successful kindergarten year and progressed in academics throughout the year.

I believe that it was unfortunate that in her first grade year, part of the problem was due to the reading series. I could see how this could happen. I have had some series in the past and couldn't believe some of the books in it. Some books were too difficult to read and other books were ones that no one would want to pick up and read because they were not very meaningful. Fortunately, in my kindergarten classroom now, we can take and use what we deem appropriate. We also have a reading book room where teachers have wonderful reading materials appropriate for our students. We can use these in our guided reading lessons and find books that are interesting for the children to read. I believe this approach would have been much better for Laurie. I know the teacher was committed to teaching the adopted curriculum but what could she have done for Laurie? I feel that if it wasn't working for Laurie that the teacher should have explored a different avenue. The same approach doesn't necessarily work for all children.

As I continued to read, I was saddened by Laurie's regression in school after her ADD diagnosis. I like how Deborah Hicks became an advocate for Laurie and combined work on reading and writing with a nurturing relationship. I believe it helped when she found an area of common interest. I found the story touching at the end when Laurie said, "I love you" to Deborah Hicks. This story reminded me of a girl in my classroom. As my research project, I read to her an extra ten minutes a day. We would go to some quiet place and spend time reading together. This was something that she didn't get much of at home. The girl began to enjoy reading books. She wanted to retell and sometimes act out the stories. She would always say, "Don't forget. We have to read today." One day as she was getting on the bus she said to me "I love you." I like the way Deborah Hick says it. "Our relationhip, which by that time was one of mutual caring and acceptance, helped to make such movement between practices possible. Though we were living our lives in different class settings, we were in this moment of teaching and learning able to move between and across those disparate locations." She also goes on to say that this is possible in classrooms but it can be difficult.

After reading this chapter, I thought of so many ideas to address. To conclude, I have enjoyed teaching Writers' Workshop this year. My children have been successful at it just as it seemed to be good for Laurie. Great chapter!

Comments (8)

Laura Wollpert:

Dawn,

I love the section in your post about the little grew you read with for an extra ten minutes a day. You made her feel special and you also helped her find a love of books. You made a real difference in one little girl's life that really needed it. I hope you can find out how this little girl grows in the future. I know it is difficult to find extra minutes for those children that really need it, but when you can do it the results are well worth it.

I think Laurie did have many positives role models in her life. Perhaps not like those of middle class families, but her situation could have been so much worse. She had people that loved her. Her mother spent time reading with her. She had good food on the table. Her mother even valued education enough to enroll in college. She is trying to pull herself out a difficult situation. I think Laurie's future still has much to offer.

Beth Rigsbee:

A reading series really can kill your instruction. Students can be immediately turned off from a lesson because the story is too long or the print is too small. I think Laurie was well aware of her difficulites to read and it is a shame that her teacher forced a series on her that was too difficult. This made a bad situation worse. Sharing age appropriate and academically appropriate literature can be motivating for many struggling students. In our district we have a reading series that is too difficult as well. We choose to not focus on the stories but utilize the skills that are taught. We use literature and guided reading sets to teach the skills when the stories are too hard to read.

Beth Rigsbee

Betsy Baldwin:

Dawn,
I was encouraged by your reaction to the chapter, which was far more positive than my own. As you pointed out, the domestic role that Laurie chose was a typical and developmentally appropriate "role play" for her! Why do you think she chose a little boy (Nicholas) instead of another little girl to engage in the "role playing"? Did she choose him in order to complete a parent (mother/father) scenerio or was Nicholas just more submissive than another? Was she already trying to fulfill her mother's ideal of finding a "prince" and creating that fairy tale ending? I'd be interested in your insight since you teach kindergarten!

I agree that Laurie's mother embodied several strong characteristics, a strong female who was goal-oriented (getting an education) and self-reliant. Why, then, did Laurie choose to tap into the "Some day my prince will come" myth rather than the other attributes exhibited by her mother?

Sorry; guess I had lots of questions after reading this chapter!!!
Betsy Baldwin

Alecia:

Dawn,
I am glad that you shared the story of the reading supplementation that you did with your student. This is a great example of how something so small to some can be monumental to learners.
I have to also comment in this space back to Betsy's comment. I too was curious about Laurie. It seemed to me that she tried to be strong and self-reliant, but then that wasn't working for her as she continued to move up in grades. So perhaps she fell into a more strong and powerful narrative and myth of rescue.
Alecia

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