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Seeing Our Students Through a Different Lens

There are two things that stick out to me when reading chapter 5; ideas about what’s important, and how boys learn differently than girls. First, I think it is very clear that Jake’s dad has a very different view on education when compared to Jake’s mom. Both parents agree that school is important and seem to want Jake to be successful. Both also state their educational philosophy is that children need to learn from their mistakes and to learn for themselves (p. 102). In contrast, Jake’s mom would like to see Jake go on to college while his father fully expects Jake to take over the family business. His parents have taught Jake (either conscientiously or sub conscientiously) how should education should occur. At home, Jake learns from his apprenticeships. He also sees literacy used for functional and purposes. These lessons and core values are in sharp contrast to what Jake receives in school. The connections to what Jake knows and values as a learner from his family are not made when he is at school. Thus begins Jake’s downward spiral as a student. I can see this same dilemma in my own working class students. One boy that I taught last year has aspirations of taking over his dad’s auto body shop. He, like Jake, sees a complete disconnection from his goals and his family’s goals from what he is being taught in school. He has even commented that many of the things taught in school will not matter when he is working for his dad. In some ways, I have to agree. Yes, he needs to be literate and have the ability to manage the day-to-day operations of a small business. With that said, does he need to know calculus and how to interpret Shakespeare? It would make him a well-rounded individual, but that is not the aspirations of many of our working class students. They do not want to attend college, work in office buildings, or live the white collar lifestyle; they want to be like other members of their family. As of now, Jake wants to work for his dad’s business when he grows up and there is nothing wrong with that. He finds a great deal of success and pride in the learning he receives from his family. This doesn’t mean Jake should stop his formal education and I agree with Jake’s dad when he states on school could be more engaging, all they had to do was connect the students’ interests to the academic tasks. (p. 134) I think some teachers and schools try to do this, but it is done in such a trivial way with no thought as to what the students are really about. Writer’s Workshop seemed to be the only place Jake found some success in his struggle to bridge the gap between his two worlds; unfortunately, that is not enough. I do agree with Hick’s final assessment that Jake will eventually lead a happy and productive life. His strong family ties and support will see to that.
Deborah Hicks uses chapter 6 to discuss how discourses have an impact on both literacy learning and learning as a whole. She discusses Martha’s Nussbaum’s theory of love’s knowledge (knowledge between persons and of persons). She also quotes Nussbaum as saying, “narrative discourses focus readers’ attention on how relations between subjects engender changes in identities, beliefs, practices, and understandings. New relationships can constitute new forms of knowledge- some empowering, some tragic.” (p. 138) I believe what Nussbaum and Hicks are saying is that much of what we learn is caught up in the social relationships we have with others. Hicks thus begins to explain the impact of Nussbaum’s theories on pg. 139 when she writes, “If, as Nussbaum suggests, much of what we come to know is shaped by relations with concrete others, then attentiveness to those relations may be important for shaping educational theory.” Deborah Hicks writes, “Therefore, it is important for literacy education that we, as educators, work to empower the poor and working-class students we teach. There must be a moral shift and a willingness to see others that are different from use. (p. 152) I thought Rose’s excerpts were particularly powerful as he explains the differences from his life and the life of his middle-class school. As he explains, in his neighborhood were no role models of higher education, love of a career, or passion for a cause; there was only existence. I suppose for some educators it would seem only reasonable that a student would jump at the chance to better themselves and move forward. But, as Rose explained, this is a scary transition into a foreign world that does not seem all that appealing. Not to mention, it’s hard to want something you don’t even realize exists for you. There is a book, The Pact, which is written by three young African-American men who were able to pull themselves up from the gang violence and drugs of the inner-city and become doctors. It is a very inspiring book, yet it gives a realistic view of what it was like for these young men to move from the only life they knew, to the middle-class world of college and, eventually, to the elite world of being medical professionals. They describe many of the same feelings as Rose and each had times that they wanted to quit and go back to the neighborhoods where they felt they belonged. The only things that helped these young men become successful were each other and teachers who really understood and cared. The final part of the book gives a brief summary of where they are today. One of the young men has since moved back to his old neighborhood and is a dentist nearby. At the time, I wondered why he would do that. Why move back to such a depressing and dangerous place when you could afford so much better? After finishing Reading Lives it now makes perfect sense.

Sally Elliott

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Karen Chester:

Sally, I also have a student that is being groomed to take over the family auto mechanic business. I think that young man will make plenty of money in that blue collar line of work. He will probably make more money than I do. I see nothing wrong with that either. However, his father undermines what we try to do in the classroom thinking that his son doesn't "need all this learnin'." He prefers his son spend his afternoons in the garage instead of working on homework. My fear is what if the son decides he doesn't want the family business? Then what? He will need an education either way. My team and I worked tirelessly this past year trying to get this young man to take some accountability for his future instead of sitting back and waiting for it to come to him.

Michael Lemke:

Sally,
You comment about the student who wants to take over his fathers autobody shop is powerful. You had said the pride and success he would have in doing so. I realized I wonder how many times in his schooling career has that feeling been shot down. At school we express what we think is success or what you should take pride in. I am sure he has been struggling bewteen the two discourses repeatedly.
Pinting out that teachers need to have a moral shift that will allow for the empowering of the working class is critcial. I think educators celebrate everyones successes. For our working class though, the school tasks need to be validated so they see the connection between school and home.

Michael Lemke

Susan Hines:

Sally,
Thank you for sharing the book, The Pact with us. I would like to read it after we have completed our class. It sounds like the men struggled with many of the topics we have been discussing. Leaving the familiar and living a different way, even one considered more successful, is difficult at best. Interestingly, one of the things that kept them strong was the support they gave to each other. This is what will make Jake successful, the support of people who love and care about him. As an educator, I can only hope that I have provided that support for some of my students.
Susan Hines

Clyde Rice:

Sally,

You pointed out the fact that Jake's mom and dad both had different views on where Jake's educational path should take him. As someone who is not married and does not have kids, I wonder how often the views of a child's parents on this issue do not connect. Would this discrepancy in the parents' views be more likely to happen with working-class families? I say this because I could see the possibility that one parent might want the child to "better" himself or herself and move beyond what the family has always known. With middle- and upper-class families, I could see the possibility that it would be a "given" that the child would go to college.

In my own upbringing, I had working-class parents, but they really didn't express a view of what they wanted me to do in terms of choosing an educational path to follow. I ended up going to college because I did not want to end up working in a hosiery mill like my parents and a couple of my siblings. I never heard either of my parents voice any stance on the matter, though.

Clyde Rice

Maria Blevins:

Phew, don’t boys learn different from girls? I had a boy heavy class last year and this year I had a girl heavy class. Because of their differences in not only interests but behavior as well, I had to alter a lot of the things I teach and the ways I teach them. Teachers must teach in different modalities to meet the interests of a heavy girl or heavy boy class. This is very evident in the case of Laurie and Jake.

Yes, it is apparent in many classrooms that students who have decided to go on to an apprenticeship view school differently than those that don’t. I see children all the time that view school as useless because they already know of a trade that they plan to go into that doesn’t require a college education. While other students who know they want to attend college in the future will try very hard in school to be successful in learning and achieving well in their academics.

It would be hard to want something that you do not even realize exists for you. This may be why so many people do not want to attend or try to attend college because they do not even know why they are trying to do such a thing.

Attentiveness to relations with certain people also affects how students view education and schooling. Jake had a father who kept pushing him to be part of the family business and to thus not attend college. It’s this type of parental support that causes children to feel as if school is a waste of time.

It is our job as educators to understand and care for all individuals whether we can personally connect with their lives or not. Like you had mentioned the three boys in the pack were able to bring themselves up from the boot straps because of the support form one another and from their teachers.

Katie Templeton:

Sally I thought what you were saying about Jake having conflicting views of education and its importance was very true of many of our students. I think what we as teachers need to do is find a way to show a student how school is extremely important even when they are wanting to pursue a trade profession. I was disappointed that Jake's father said his ambition should be to take over the family buisness. I do believe that going into that line of work would be good for Jake but I would have hoped that his dad would have expressed more of the same sentiment as his mom did in terms of education.

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