It’s awesome being a boy post
It is wonderful when research utilizes the truths, identities, and lives of its subjects. I have read a thousand or more research texts and none have touched me like the stories of Laurie from last reading and Jake from this one, both of whom struggle as blue collar kids in a world dominated and taught for the upper middle class.
Jake’s sense that all work had to make sense and had to have some achievable goal, in order to be not “stupid” is truly resonant of the discourses I hear from my teenage, middle class boys in my writing classes. Also, his sense of action within all walks of life, really represent what it means to be a boy; always doing something so that we can do something else. My wife yells at me all of the time because, just as soon as I finish one project on our home, the next weekend I am working on a new one. When Jake is asked to draw a picture for the fictional tale of Fireman Dale and says “of course not,” with a frankness that only small children have, I nearly fell into the floor laughing.
Jake is every teenage boy I have ever taught.
When I first started teaching writing, my principal told me that the one thing he wanted most from me was not high test scores, but to see the “young men” in my classes learn to write because all of the teachers that he currently had were unable to reach them, and as a male teacher it would be my job to bridge that gap. Well, let’s just say that my first semester of teaching was terrible.
I tried everything to get these boys to write about their feelings, their past, and most of all I tried to get them to write cause and effect essays as their ability to pass the writing test would lead to my own successes and job protection. It was disastrous, which was actually the best thing that ever happened to me.
I was so overwhelmed with discipline issues and a real realization that these boys would never write an essay that I finally stopped trying to teach them to write for the writing test and started teaching them to write for themselves; my logic being that if I could not force them to pass the writing test, I could at least teach them to write.
First, I developed project style writings, having the students, who like Jake, LOVED VIDEO GAMES; make a videogame of their own. They took large sheets of poster board and created elaborate story boards for their games supported by magnificent drawings and magazine clippings. Then they asked if we could film a commercial for the video games by acting their story boards out, so I took them outside and we built “sets” from large pieces of cardboard and things that they brought from home. They revised and revised and revised their storyboards until they were comfortable with other people seeing them. Then we filmed and it was the funniest, best films I have ever seen. One group decided to make a fishing game and filmed themselves fishing at a pond while a serial killer tried to kill them. I was amazing.
Then we took the skills learned from the project and applied that to the writing test essay style papers. I had a record number of students pass the writing test from our school and we even got AYP and school of distinction because of it. This was an inner city school with gang issues, race issues, and issues of all other sorts, let alone the fact that all of my children are on free or reduced lunch. It was amazing and since then, for kids like Jake, I take them under my wing and we do “action” to learn reading and writing skills.
I also want to take a step back and discuss how Jake created his identity as a self learner, role modeled by a father that said “he’ll learn for himself.”He wanted to be just like his father in every way, he wanted to be successful by his family’s definition of success, and truthfully, why shouldn’t he be considered successful by his own measurement? Why do we spend so much time and effort trying to force children to meet our standards of success instead of their own? Obviously, kids need to know how to read, write, add, and subtract, as well as learn to be lifelong learners, so that we as a society will prosper, but at the same time, it makes no sense what so ever to try to dictate that success to children. Let them learn their way. Let them own their education.
One of my students, like Jake, wants to be his father. He wants to work on cars for the rest of his life, and he is very good at it. Why then do we consider him becoming a mechanic, a profession that blows my too literate mind, a bad thing? He can become rich from his work, he can support his family, and he can be happy of his own accord by doing what he loves, and as someone who loves what he does, I can honestly say that that is just as valuable if not more so than a four year degree. As a high school teacher, I see teachers tell juniors and seniors that they should want more for their lives, but in reality, they will have more if they follow their hearts.
Finally, I would like to add to the importance of finding authorial self as a writer. Jake and my students could and often do, benefit from being able to narrate the events and proposed events of their lives. I too use a writer’s notebook to develop this in my children. They get their notebooks at the beginning of the semester and immediately ask, what do I HAVE to do with this? And my response is always the same, write whatever you want. The only restrictions I place on it is that they, somehow, fill a certain amount of pages every week in a way that shows that they own it and they own their writing. I had a student, a bad one at that, that filled her notebook with everything from dog hair to leaves. She even had dirt in it (Given, so does mine that I display for them and write with them). Everything in it told a story that was unique and beautiful in every way, and she proudly takes it with her every where she goes.
William Byland