I often wonder if the younger set out there was plagued during their adolescent years by the scourge of last name identity as it relates to literacy and worth. After reading Hicks research and accounts of "we of me" and the fact that literacy is not just reading, many memories flooded my mind. In my dating years and in the years of friendship cultivation, I remember quite well my experiences with my family and in particular my mom. In my county we had many people with the last name of Cox, Smith, Brady, Brown, Deaton, Kiser, Moffitt, Craven, Teague and the list goes on. When I mentioned to my mom certain interest in cultivating friendships or dating certain people, she immediately referenced them by the last name as if it would be a predictor of their worth. "On no", she would say, "you don't want to date a Deaton or make friends with a Brady." "Their families are illiterate or poor or bad and so on." These kids were lableled already and off limits to me. My literacy evolution was to be threatened by the very parameters she set. I suffered during these years and realized potential friends avoided me and thought I was an introvert. The "we of me" was always my family and I began to think there were no other people out there quite as good as my family. The Holy Bible and study was written literacy for me and my content area studies. However, as time evolved even my family ties could not stop the evolution of relationships and new "we of me" experiences. We never stop evolving in this way and as meet people or change circles of friends. My we people change as well as my thirst for new and different literature based on what they bring to my life. They shape me and mold me. How fortunate I have been to be able to break out of the small southern community stereotype and become intertwined with culturally different and diverse beings. The very socialization with many people continue to make me what or who I am and I don't see this ever stopping until death. Am I a Hybrid? You betcha I am. As a matter of fact, I change the nature of my hybrid existence depending on where and with whom. In reference to the podcast, I now understand as well that I am a literary product of the female south. That is innate and will not change but I revere and applaud my friends and experiences from different cultures and backgrounds. With each relationship and experience my readings become more diverse and clear. How in the world do we expect young children from certain cultures and backgrounds that experience only that because they can't flee the nest, to understand some of the literature we as educators place before them. How can we test them on such? They must live and experience in order to learn as do we. Relationships, experiences, people, places, all form our literacy background. Reading and reading for understanding is the product of those things. That is true literacy.
Candace Kee
Comments (4)
Candace,
I can really identify with your words about parents saying - you don't want to hang out with "fill in the blank" becuase they have a bad reputation. Even before I knew what a bad repuation was I just new I didn't want one of those. I am also a souhtern female and do identify with those traditional ideals of what a traditional southern lady should be like. I think however that I would be a dissappointment to my ancestors as I was quite the tomboy and even now hair, makeup and dressing up are not my priorities. I am proud to be from the south and would not characterize my upbringing as bad but I too have been able to break from traditional bias and form my own opinions about people without labeling them.
Posted by Karen Gold | June 22, 2011 10:51 AM
Posted on June 22, 2011 10:51
Candace,
Thanks for sharing your experience as a "hybrid" from shifting between your southern female discourse as a child and the discourses you discovered as an adult. How boring it would be to belong to just one discourse and not experience different cultures throughout life. I did not grow up in the south but I have met many people with that same frame of mind and feel sorry for the fact they will never know how wonderful diversity can be!
Posted by Michelle Carlson | June 22, 2011 1:10 PM
Posted on June 22, 2011 13:10
Candy,
Your post made me think of my students who do not possess prior knowledge in many areas, mainly because they have had limited experiences in life. For example, so many of the students I work with have never been to the beach, have never seen the ocean, jumped the waves or collected seashells. If we are reading a book about oceans or sealife, I'll grab a few seashells from home to share with my students. They seem fascinated as they hold a shell for the very first time! There are so many things these students have not experienced. For reaching a goal during the winter, we celebrated with hot chocolate. When I asked the students if they wanted whipped cream on top, several said "No". When I asked these students if they had ever had whipped cream, they replied "No". Once they had a little taste, however, they all wanted whipped cream on top of their hot chocolate. These are only two examples of many, but my point is echoed in your statement, "They must live and experience as do we."
I do think it's great that these children get to know and make friends with children from different cultures. When I was growing up, there were mostly white students with a few African-Americans. The students at my school not only know white and African-American students, but also Hispanic and Hmong students. At the elementary school level, these students play with one another no matter what culture they are from.
Posted by Carol Holt | June 22, 2011 6:37 PM
Posted on June 22, 2011 18:37
What interesting connections and extensions of the text -- thank you for sharing the evolution of your "we."
Posted by Dr. Jackson | June 23, 2011 9:54 AM
Posted on June 23, 2011 09:54